BOLD MEN HUB DATING / ATTRACTION How to Become the Man She's Terrified to Lose She's not afraid of losing the man who texts her every hour, checks in constantly, and tells her he's not going anywhere. She's afraid of losing the one who wouldn't fall apart if she did. Most men spend years building the wrong kind of security. More reassurance. More promises. More proof that they're "not like the last guy." They think that's what makes a woman feel safe enough to stay. It usually does the...